COMMITMENT
“Recommit Yourself with Passion and Gusto.”
Week 41 – 8 October 2025

Reading Saved Me

How many of you were at NLB’s Big Book Giveaway last month where 60,000 pre-loved books were free for anyone to take home?

If there is something that you can recommit yourself with passion and gusto, it is to reading and learning.

Reading can be a refuge, quiet lifeline a companion in solitude and certainly a source of transformation. Many well-known figures whose commitment to reading and learning has deeply shaped their lives include:

  • Albert Einstein who struggled in traditional schooling and was labeled a poor student early on. He found refuge in books especially philosophy and science texts.
  • Lee Kuan Yew was a voracious reader, often citing books as his compass for governance. In interviews, he credited books with helping him understand systems, ideologies and the psychology of leadership.
  • After surviving an assassination attempt for advocating girls’ education, Malala Yousafza turned to books as a source of healing and activism.
  • Mahatma Gandhi’s reading shaped his philosophy of nonviolence and civil disobedience. His quote, “Live as if you were to die tomorrow; learn as if you were to live forever,” remains a beacon for lifelong learners.
  • Emma Watson who often speaks about books as tools for empowerment and self-discovery.
  • BTS’ RM (Kim Namjoon) once said that reading helped him “find words for feelings he didn’t know how to name”. He is a self-proclaimed bookworm whose reading habits have shaped BTS’ lyrics and philosophy.

Reading has such a deep impact on many. There is even a form of therapy called Bibliotherapy that uses books, poetry and stories to help individuals navigate emotional challenges, gain insight and foster resilience. It can be guided by a therapist or self-directed.  

The current book I am reading ‘Reading the seasons: books holding life & friendship together’ by Germaine Leece and Sonya Tsakalakis charts the evolution of their friendship through candid letters between the two who are bibliotherapists. It is fascinating reading about the books and poetry that they recommended to their respective clients.

Like them, I love reading from a young age, Enid Blyton was one of my favourite authors. Her books ignited my imagination for possibilities and inspired my dream of being a published author someday.

When I was in Secondary 1, I had low test scores (huge surprise for me!) for my English subject. My English/ History teacher encouraged me to read more extensively. That is possibly when I shifted from reading purely for enjoyment to reading for learning.

Am grateful for this shift. When things fell apart in my thirties, reading for learning literally saved me. It allowed me to obtain new skillsets to pivot new pathways. Reading became a lifeline when I get discouraged. For example, when I became disillusioned about love, I intentionally borrowed romance books from the library to remain a love optimist. Reading The Alchemist also gave me courage to create a new beginning for myself in spite of the obstacles.

Even now, I read extensively and often, read a few different books at the same time.

There is one difference though between my younger reading self and now.

After learning about manifestations, metaphysics and the power of our minds, I am a lot more discerning about what I read. About what I feed my mind. For example, I used to enjoy reading crime stories and thrillers but have now stopped reading them.

For those of you who are interested, here are some books which were valuable in my transformative journey:

  • Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires by Esther Hicks and Jerry Hicks
  • Awaken the Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny! By Anthony Robbins
  • Be Brilliant Everyday by Andy Cope and Andy Whittaker
  • Big Potential: How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being by Shawn Achor
  • Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell
  • Change Your Questions, Change Your Life by Marilee Adams
  • Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Lack of Focus, Anger, and Memory Problems by Daniel G Amen
  • Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue by Neale Donald Walsch, Neale Donald
  • Dark Nights of Your Soul: A Guide to Finding Your Way Through Life’s Ordeals by Thomas Moore
  • Dear Lover by David Deida
  • Expect A Miracle: 7 Spiritual Steps to Finding the Right Relationship by Kathy Freston
  • Grit: Why passion and resilience are the secrets to success by Angela Duckworth
  • Hardwiring Happiness: the practical science of reshaping your brain and your life by Rick Hanson
  • Heal Your Body by Louise L Hay
  • Lao Tsu Tao Te Ching by Gia-Fu Feng and Jane English
  • Mindfulness Based Leadership: The Art of Being a Leader Not Becoming One by Kathirasan K.
  • Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S Dweck
  • Personality Plus at Work: How to Work Successfully with Anyone by Florence Littauer and Rose Sweet
  • Quantum Touch: The Power to Heal by Richard Gordon
  • Stages of Faith: The Psychology of Human Development and the Quest for Meaning by James W Fowler
  • The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
  • The Astonishing Power of Emotions: Let Your Feelings Be Your Guide by Esther Hicks and Jerry Hicks
  • The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak
  • The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology That Fuel Success and Performance at Work by Shawn Achor
  • The Path to Love: Spiritual Strategies for Healing by Deepak Chopra
  • The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
  • Triggers: Sparking Positive Change and Making It Last by Goldsmith, Marshall
  • You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L Hay

I always tried to be correct, not politically correct.
And I read to understand what works.

– Lee Kuan Yew

Books as Companions on the Path to Becoming

Reflection

  • Have you ever read something that made you question the very way you work, lead or serve?
  • What book or shared learning has deepened your connection with others?
  • What kind of learner are you becoming through the stories, ideas, and voices you choose to engage with?

Action

This week, I invite you to share a recent or current book that you have read which is beneficial in our FB club group. Let us support each other to flourish.

Practice for the Week

If you have neglected reading, this week make time to pick up a book for your next reading adventure.